When a Girl Wants You to Approach Her

by Giuseppe Notte

Walking down the street, you usually feast your eyes on the hot ladies going by and say to yourself, "I'd do her!" Has it ever occurred to you that men are not alone in this? Yes, my friend, women do the same!

During your everyday life, whether you're on the subway, walking in the local shopping mall or dancing in your favorite club, girls notice you and measure you in the same way. They might not say, "I'd do him," but they may be open to meeting you and going further.

Most guys just live their lives and never notice when a woman is eyeing them. But what if you approached her? Just think about how many of these opportunities to meet wonderful girls you've lost in the past! Countless, no doubt!

Here are a few examples: A girl walking in front of you who looks into your eyes and smiles is giving you a sign of interest. When you're on the bus and a certain girl maintains her proximity to you (even if you sit or stand somewhere else), she is showing a sign of interest. Maybe you notice out of the corner of your eye that a girl is looking at you from time to time. Or the girl sitting next to you is fixing her hair, putting on makeup or doing something else to get your attention.

Most of these women are waiting for you to make your move! Even though it's sometimes subconscious for them as well, if you read the signs correctly, she is SURE to respond to you positively.

If you've got the courage to meet some wonderful girls this way, I will share my secret. This is a secret some authors are selling for a hell of a lot of $$$, and if I give it to you, you have to make a promise. You MUST promise to try it AT LEAST ONCE. Otherwise, close this window and go to disney.com RIGHT NOW! Deal?

OK. So you're staying with me. Don't forget your promise! The following approach requires balls, but it also works like a charm. In certain situations when you're pressed for time and you see a women showing you signs of interest (like those mentioned above), go up to her with a big smile on your face and say:

"Hi. You look like somebody I should get to know, but I'm in a hurry right now. Still, I don't want to pass by such a wonderful opportunity to meet someone like you. I'd like to see you again at a place where we can talk and get to know each other."

It's very important to SMILE and come off as casual and non-threatening. Like when you bump into a friend you haven't seen for a long time. If you interpreted her body language correctly and she really gave you an invitation to approach her, she'll agree to meet again. So, after she recovers from her initial (positive) shock, simply ask for her number — then smile and carry on with whatever you were doing.

One more thing: Recognizing these signs is not easy if you've never done it before. So don't be afraid to practice, and don't be scared if you're rejected at times. After all, the girl you approach doesn't even know YOU. If she rejects you, she is only rejecting a stranger, not your real self. You see, it's very important not to take these things personally.