Why You Must Plan Before Calling a Girl
What's the difference between the guy who calls a girl and gets a date with no trouble and the guy who takes a week to get a date?
The first guy knows exactly what he wants to do. The latter is clueless.
I've never met a girl who had a good idea for something to do. Friend or otherwise, it's simply not their job to plan the get together, and they're not used to it.
So as guys, it's our job. It's a pain in the ass, but we have to do it.
Don't call a woman and use this line...
"So, uh, what do YOU want to do?" She'll say, "I don't know, what do YOU want to do?" While she's thinking, "Damn, what a wimp."
You'll end up planning another time to call her, so you both have time to think of something. Talk about dragging your feet...
But on the other hand when you know exactly what to do, if she's interested in you at all she'll probably say yes.
Unless you're going to a Chinese restaurant and she's allergic to soy, she'd have no reason to refuse. She just wants to get together with you, and the place doesn't really matter.
Plus, she'll get the impression that you're a take-charge kind of guy, and most (if not all) gals dig that.
Having an activity planned before you call makes things infinitely easier. Sure, it can be a pain in the ass, but at least you won't end up going to the "Little Women" convention.
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