Flirting 101 — 7 Tips for Successful Flirting
- Take the initiative once in a while. Other people are shy too.
- Be aware of your body language and the messages you're sending subconsciously. Positioning your body to face the object of your affection says you're open and friendly. Wrapping your arms around yourself as if you were wearing a straitjacket tells the world you're either cold or closed off, neither of which makes you particularly approachable.
- Touch is powerful, so use it sparingly. Practice briefly grazing the other person's hand or forearm in conversation. Look for signs of acceptance (reciprocity, for instance) before repeating the gesture.
- Understand that listening more than you talk is the ultimate turn-on.
- Don't wait for a certain time or place to flirt. As long as the situation is appropriate, make your location work for you.
- Be generous with sincere compliments. ("What a charming accent," or "That color looks wonderful on you.")
- Remember that our capacity to flirt is limitless -- so don't let one lame attempt deter you.
“The 22 Rules That Let Me Go From Zero to Hero With Women… And How You Can Use Them Starting Tonight”
No, you don’t have to be rich. No, you don’t need to be famous. And no, you definitely don’t need to look like Brad Pitt.
I used to be you. Shy. Awkward. Tongue-tied around women I found even mildly attractive. And yet… somehow I figured out how to turn things around. Not just a little. A LOT.
It started with learning 22 simple rules that changed everything.
