What Women Don't Want
I'm not expert Don — that is why I'm named RookieDon — but here is my bit.
There is no question that having good looks is an asset. Anyone who tells you otherwise is a liar. Good looks will get you in the door.
I'm not a bad looking guy, and have had women attracted to me because I'm not bad looking with a nice smile. Unfortunately, I have more than once completely turned women off with my insecurity and lack of confidence.
When a women is attracted to you, and you know it, and you still bungle it — man that hurts.
This is how I stumbled upon this website.
I had a great gal really liking me. I don't mean kind of liking me, but really liking me. I wanted her so bad, that I eventually fouled things up so badly it is embarrassing.
If the Dons out there could have seen the things I did and the way I behaved — they would ban me from offering any advice.
The Same Mistakes With Women
However, this does not mean I cannot learn. This site made me realize that I was making the same mistakes over and over in my relationships. I needed to overhaul the way I dealt with women.
With this in mind, the thing that has sabotaged many of my potential and budding relationships is lack of confidence, insecurity, and low self-esteem around desirable women.
I end up trying so darn hard. Well, you know what happens next.
On the reverse, every time I'm with a women I don't really desire, they end up really liking me and wanting me.
I am starting to figure out what is going on here.
How to Win With Women Every Time
I honestly believe that a man who is confident and has his s**t together will win every time.
I have friends who aren't that great looking, but they have a lot more success with women than me because of their confidence. They make women feel at ease. The women want to be with these men because when they are, they feel good about themselves.
Confidence can't be faked. I've tried. And women know this. It must resonate from within.
If you've got this, I don't care what you look like, because you've got appeal.
No question, if you combine confidence with good looks — watch out!
But I really believe confidence will hold the women.
Women like strong men. I've come to this conclusion because I have truly learned what women don't want.
They don't want babies.
They want men.