Chick Magnetism 101

Or How to Attract Girls Without Even Trying

by De La Soul

Here's something I've noticed over the years, and I'm sure you'll notice it too:

The guys who are successful and happy in their lives, and who realize that they don't need women to make them happy, attract chicks like there's no tomorrow.

This is no coincidence.

They are successful and happy because they have brought success and happiness into their own lives instead of waiting for a woman to bring it. These successful men know that they have the power to achieve happiness without a woman.

They don't NEED women.

What does this add up to?


They are not going to jump through hoops for a woman, and they are certainly not going to place any woman on a pedestal.


How many successful and happy people do you know who don't have confidence?


What do they care if a man or woman likes them or doesn't like them? What do they care if they get rejected?

They already have happiness and success and therefore they conduct themselves with complete confidence and take rejection with ease; what's more, they're very unlikely to be rejected.

He has a life of his own to live, it doesn't revolve around women.


A happy man knows how to have fun. He can be cocky and funny, and he knows how to have a good time.

A true chick magnet is a guy who is happy and successful.

So how does he become happy and successful?

It's not easily achieved, but the first step is to realize that you and only you can bring happiness into your own life.

How is this done?

Well, here are a few quick and easy ways to achieve happiness:

  • Generosity
  • Optimism
  • Being a risk-taker
  • Listening to your favorite music
  • Getting fit
  • Stimulating your mind
  • Smiling
  • Laughing

But by far the best way to achieve the most happiness is by working toward your goals in life, working hard for them, and achieving them.

This is the greatest source of happiness and success.

And hence the greatest source of chick magnetism.

SoSuave Note: Most guys pursue and chase after women.

But Don Juans (like you!) attract women, by building a life that is happy, successful, and exciting.

Remember, a woman will not make you happy. You must make yourself happy.

And then your job will not be to pursue women.

But to select among all of the great women who are now interested in you.

This is Chick Magnetism 101.