The Most Common Dating Mistake You Probably Make with Women
All You Have to Do Is Listen
This tip might seem obvious, but when I go out I hear a lot of men making the same common mistake: they don't listen!
Instead of learning more about the woman, they talk about how good their job/car/life is in a futile attempt to impress the woman. Most of the women I see are not impressed. In fact, the women are obviously bored, but the wannabe Don Juan is too busy listening to himself talk to pay any attention to her body language.
What impresses a woman is one thing: sincere caring. Women LOVE attention. But it must be sincere. Women are good at detecting insincerity.
Try this: try to maintain the 60/40 rule or even the 70/30 rule. This means that you let her talk 60 or 70% of the time and you talk only 30 or 40% of the time. Ask open-ended questions:
"How do you feel about..."
"What do you think about..."
Women LOVE to share their opinions. And they love being around someone that wants to hear what they have to say. All women want the same thing: to be cared about. And most women place more importance on their feelings than anything else.
As long as you make them feel special, they don't care what kind of job/car/life you have. As long as you care about their most precious thing — their feelings.
Women don't feel alive if their feelings aren't stimulated. And we all like people who are interested in the same things as we are. Use this knowledge to your advantage.