Make Women See You As Strong and Competent

by Smooth Vejita

I just realized this great tip the other day when one of my female friends was asked what she saw in me. Her response was, "He's strong and someone I can go to for advice or protection."

To really put off that aura, refrain from saying things that subtly exude incompetence, like saying:

  • I don't know.
  • I'm not sure.
  • I think.
  • I guess.
  • I have no idea.
  • No clue.

Or incompetent body language such as:

  • stuttering.
  • taking a long time to respond to questions.
  • lacking decisiveness.
  • stalling when faced with a decision.
  • looking in other places instead of where your focus should be.