Meeting Women in Bars
"Can I buy you a drink?" is a terrible line to use when trying to meet women in bars.
For one thing, it's what every other guy says. You've just conveyed to this lady that you'd like to impress (in about 2 seconds) that you're no one special.
Second, it's a line, and lines are rarely well received by women in bars. (If she's in a good mood, and your line is FUNNY it might possibly work okay.)
And third, it's likely to lead to a very disappointing evening as many women will "use" you to finance their night out on the town. Then, as the evening begins to wind down, they may stick you with a fake phone number when they have to leave "with their friends" (of which you, buddy, ain't one).
Not all women who go to bars are like that. But there are enough that you don't want to set yourself up for it with such a stupid opening.
So how do you meet women in bars? A smiling "Hi" followed by a compliment followed by a question often works wonders... if you know who to approach, and if you have the proper ATTITUDE.
Allen Thompson
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“The 22 Rules That Let Me Go From Zero to Hero With Women… And How You Can Use Them Starting Tonight”
No, you don’t have to be rich. No, you don’t need to be famous. And no, you definitely don’t need to look like Brad Pitt.
I used to be you. Shy. Awkward. Tongue-tied around women I found even mildly attractive. And yet… somehow I figured out how to turn things around. Not just a little. A LOT.
It started with learning 22 simple rules that changed everything.
