When Hooking Up with Women Is Easy

by Brian

Here's a little theory that works especially well in college, but is generalizable to the broader world of women and sex.

It seems to me that one of the most common reasons girls give for not wanting to hook up with guys in a "one-night stand" situation is that they don't want to develop a reputation as a slut -- that girl that is always hooking up with random guys.

However, girls often have this mentality that the normal rules of social conduct don't apply during special events. So, on these special events they may go out with the intention to hook up, or the intention to have a crazy night, etc., or at least they'll have a more open mind that night towards out-of-the-ordinary activities.

What count as special events?

Holidays are a good place to start (New Years, Valentine's Day, St. Patrick's Day are particularly good examples), but other special events can be even better.

Homecoming, annual parties thrown by a friend, costume parties, anything that is out of the ordinary that girls look forward to and get excited about can be a good example.

So how do you take advantage of these special events? That's the realm of the rest of the DJ site. But in a nutshell, approach these nights with an open mind, a condom, and every scrap of confidence you possess.

Good Luck!