It's Time to Toughen Up

by Mark

In the world of dating and in life, there's a concept that men need to learn.

That concept is that things are not always fair. The simple fact is that bad things are going to happen to you from time to time.

Some common examples of this in dating include getting dumped by your girlfriend, having her cheat on you with someone, getting rejected by a girl you're interested in, or sitting home alone on the weekend.

Too many people bitch, whine, and complain when things don't go their way. They sit around having a pity party all down and depressed. It's time to start acting like a man and toughen up.

Don't sit around feeling sorry for yourself. You're not the first guy this kind of thing has happened to.

Well, in order for things to get any better, you have to get up and do something about it. Rather than wallow around in self-pity, it's time to start making some changes for the good.

Start improving yourself in any way you can. Be more social and develop your social skills. Get off the couch and work out a little bit. Use this free time you have to your advantage. Take on some projects and do some things that you've been putting off for a while. Do something constructive.

There comes a time when you have to get fed up with living in mediocrity and to start making some changes. Quit being such a wimp and a crybaby, and be a man.

I'm sure that you've had some bad or negative things come against you. You may have been mistreated. Regardless of your situation, the fact remains that sitting around isn't going to do any good.

I want to challenge all of you today who are down, lonely, depressed, and feeling like a total wimp, to break out of that and get going again. Quit being upset over what's lost and move on with your life.

Today's a new day, and until you quit crying over what's lost, you'll never experience anything new. So toughen up today and get out of that rut.