How to Respond When She Tells You She Has a Boyfriend
This is something a friend of mine came up with so I gave it a try. And to much success, I might add.
When you meet a new girl and you're hitting it off pretty well in the small talk area, you want to get her number. But the problem is most of them already have a boyfriend. When they give you this reply, without even flinching, tell them:
"That's O.K., I'll still take you out. I'm not the jealous type."
- They laugh. (Good sign.)
- It elongates the conversation. (No weird, "I just got rejected feeling.")
- If they don't give you their number after that, they will take yours. (I prefer a business card here — looks more professional, and doesn't get discarded as easy.)
The beauty of this is like I said, it takes away the awkward feeling of rejection. Plus, if the conversation was going well in the first place, the woman has a small attraction to you anyways, whether only friendly or not.
I have had this work every time, with only one woman not ever call me. You always feel confident about what you did and said this way also.
I have found that my personality has blessed me with women that are out of my league (as far as looks are concerned). So be confident when you say this — don't make it "another cheesy line". Say it like you mean it.
