What Do You Say About Yourself?

by Mark

Our words and what we say have a very profound effect on our success or failure in dating.

We can use our words in many ways. We use our words when we approach women and when we converse with them. But today I don't want to talk to you about how to approach women, strike up a conversation, or talk to them on the telephone. I want to talk to you and have you look at what you are saying in your daily speech.

Think about what kinds of words are coming out of your mouth? Are they negative words of defeat? Don't talk about your problems constantly. If you're single today and lonely, you don't have to tell everyone about your problem. Talking about it won't do any good.

By our own words we can make ourselves happy or we can make ourselves miserable. That is why it's important to choose your words carefully.

Your Words Can Drag You Down,
Or They Can Build You Up

So what do you say about yourself?

Do you say that you're not attractive enough to find someone? Do you say that nothing good ever happens to you? What do you say about your future? Do you say that you'll never find anyone and just be alone for the rest of you life?

If you do, you better make a decision to stop it today. Your own words will become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Don't verbalize your pain and suffering. The longer you talk about the negative things in your life, the longer you'll stay in that defeat.

Use your words to change your situation, not describe it.

You need to start saying that things are turning around in your favor. You need to say that anyone would be lucky to be with someone like you.

Remember that you can't have a negative tongue and expect to have a positive life.

Don't let another critical thing come out of your mouth about yourself.

I'm not saying to deny your problem. I'm just saying that you don't have to constantly talk about it. Quit being so hard on yourself. Nobody wants to be around a complainer.

Especially in the tough times of life, guard your tongue more than ever. Your words during these times will either make you or break you. If you have a positive tongue, you can have a positive life in the midst of your circumstances.

So let me ask you today, which direction are you going? Forward or backwards? Positive or negative?

I understand that some of you may not feel successful or like a winner today, but let me encourage you to speak positive words anyway about your life. What we say acts as a self-fulfilling prophecy.

If you start to speak the right words about yourself and your situation, nothing will be able to stop you, and you'll live a life of success in dating and in your relationships.