Confident Men Don't Explain
"I can't come because..."
"I can't do that because..."
Most people, when refusing something, will immediately add, "because..." and launch into an explanation. But they didn't ask for an explanation!
Even if they'll want to know, you can come off so much more confident by putting forward the refusal and then saying nothing - forcing them to ask why.
The message it gives is that you could really give a damn about what she thinks about you - and whatever you do you know will be right, so you don't need to explain yourself.
The trick is also an "open loop" as described in Swinggcat's book, Real World Seduction. It involves them in the conversation by making them ask questions to open you up, and in doing so commits them psychologically to being interested.
“The 22 Rules That Let Me Go From Zero to Hero With Women… And How You Can Use Them Starting Tonight”
No, you don’t have to be rich. No, you don’t need to be famous. And no, you definitely don’t need to look like Brad Pitt.
I used to be you. Shy. Awkward. Tongue-tied around women I found even mildly attractive. And yet… somehow I figured out how to turn things around. Not just a little. A LOT.
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