When to Call Her

by Mark

In dating, there are a lot of factors that contribute to one's success. Among these factors are looking good, being confident and sure of yourself, and of course your personality.

Another key element that must be learned to be successful in dating is your telephone skills. What I want to focus on today is knowing when to call a woman once you get her phone number.

If you practice the skills in these articles consistently, before long you'll start to get phone numbers and potential dates. Here are some good rules that I use and apply and hopefully it will help you out as well.

First, when you get a woman's number, never call the next day. This is a rookie mistake that a lot of guys make. It makes you look needy when you do this. Instead, wait a few days before calling.

For example, if you get her number on Sunday, call her Wednesday or Thursday. If you get her number on Monday, call her on Thursday. If you get her number of Tuesday, call her on Thursday or Sunday. If you get her number of Thursday or Friday, call her on Sunday or Monday. If you get her number on Saturday, call her on Tuesday. Easy enough.

Also, never make the first phone call on a weekend. It makes it seem that you have nothing going on and you look needy.

Next, so what to talk about?

You can always talk about your weekend that you had. But don't talk on the phone too long for the first time. Remember that your goal is to get a date with her. So schedule one. A casual one such as lunch, coffee, or a ball game.

Finally, do not call her the next day after the first date. Wait at least 2 days before you call her again.

Applying these simple rules to your dating life will help you do several things...

First, you won't come off as needy and not having anything to do.

Second, you maintain some mystery about yourself by not showing all of your cards at once.

You will be a step ahead of all of the other chumps out there who make the mistake of calling right after getting the number and look needy and desperate. If you'll take these easy steps, then you will be on the right path to becoming more successful in your relationships.