How to Trigger Deep Level Attraction in Women
In a minute I'm going to introduce you to some concepts and techniques for leaving women no choice but to feel sexual attraction for you. Yet... what I'm about to suggest has zero to do with sporting great looks or possessing bins of cash.
Although developing your sense humor and personality are crucial to succeeding with women, this letter isn't about attracting women through telling jokes or entertaining them.
A few of these secrets I've never mentioned. I've been hording them for myself 'til now.
Feel free to take the material I'm going to share with you and use it to attract women. It will give you a taste of what's possible. Don't be surprised if you feel the urge to learn more.
I want to share a story with you (Note: you might feel a temptation to skip the story and dive into the good stuff. But don't. It's important).
A buddy of mine recently felt despondent over his success with women, which amounts to a big, fat zero.
But here's the weird part...
He's fearless at approaching women. He's a master at engaging them in conversation -– most women find him funny and charming. He has no problem getting their numbers, talking to them on the phone, and setting up dates. He's got heaps of girls willing to break their plans to spend time with him.
He cannot, for the life him, become sexually intimate with these women because...
They feel no attraction for him.
Convinced that his looks are holding him back, he's thinking about going under the knife. The procedures he's considering are so disgusting that when he told me about them I could feel my throat moving up-and-down inside my neck skin, struggling to keep my last meal from hurling up.
The reality is... looks aren't his problem. He's not a bad looking guy.
But there is something that's slaughtering his success with women.
However, he's not a strange aberration, an attraction retard we should cull from society and stick on a leper colony.
In fact... most of the male population is plagued with his problem.
The majority of men think attraction has to do with physical preference. "If you aren't a woman's type, you're better off moving on," they lament.
Some develop their personalities, thinking it's their ticket to stoking women's bellies with an endless supply of attraction. Developing your personality can help... but only if it's coupled with something else... something I'm going to share with you in a minute.
When most men see a woman throwing herself at an average looking male, they think, "He must have a mystical and innate sex appeal."
Well there isn't anything mystical or inborn about this guy's sex appeal. At a certain point he stumbled onto doing something to women that neither my friend nor 9/10ths of men trudging through the single seen trenches know exists.
I'm talkin' about SEXUAL TENSION
"What exactly is sexual tension?" you might be wondering.
It's a mixture of emotions: think excitement with a dash of fear, titillation with a tinge of uneasiness, and intrigue with a smidgen of worry.
There are two forms of sexual tension: Passive Sexual Tension (PST) and Active Sexual Tension (AST).
Passive Sexual Tension (PST) is when you do or say something that besots a woman into a passive sexual state. Years ago my sister and her friends got to have dinner with Johnny Depp. She was so attracted to Mr. Depp, that she just sat there like dumb dear in headlights, gawking at him in silence and feeling too tongue tied to talk. That's an example of Passive Sexual Tension. I teach tons of ways to trigger Passive Sexual Tension without possessing Johnny Depp's mug.
But I'm not going to talk about them in this article. Instead I want to discuss Active Sexual Tension (AST).
Active Sexual Tension is similar to its passive brother except that it compels women to actively respond to you.
Let's say, for example, I'm talkin' to a woman and sense that she's into me. At a certain point I might say to her: "You are terribly sarcastic... but that's cool because I'm the exact same way. And if we were to hang out we'd have the best time making fun of the people around us at their expense... but then our Karma would be tainted... so we can never be friends."
Most likely, this will trigger Active Sexual Tension, compelling her to insist: "Noo! We have to hang out! We've gotta be friends! We are going to have so much fun!"
I'm making her chase me. But not in the way she'd chase down a thief who stole her purse. Instead I'm emotionally driving her to chase me as a Prize having meaning and value to her. That's why I call the act of triggering Active Sexual Tension (AST) in women "Prizing."
All forms of effective Prizing are structured as a tension loop...
1) Tension is sparked.
2) Tension is increased.
3) Tension is released.
4) Tension is spark all over again.
Good movies have this structure...
The movie begins by introducing conflict or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension inside the viewer.
Emotional tension increases up until the point of the climax.
The tension, then, is released by bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama.
And, finally, the movie ends by sparking that tension all over again, compelling you to see the sequel.
One of quickest and most effective ways to Prize a woman, triggering heaps of Active Sexual Tension (AST) in her, is to use what I call "Push-Pull."
Push-Pull is emotionally pushing a woman away from you and then pulling her back in. Each Push triggers tension... and each Pull resolves that tension.
To get a feel for Push-Pull, here's a real life dialogue...
It started off with the woman commenting on something I was saying to her friend.
Girl: Ew... that's gross. You're gross.
Swinggcat: (said after a long sigh) I had a feeling you couldn't handle me!
Girl: No no! That's not true. I can handle you.
Swinggcat: Alright... let's see how well you thumb wrestle.
(I win the thumb wrestling competition by shamelessly cheating.)
Girl: You cheated! That's no fair. I want a rematch.
Swinggcat: You know what... you're a feisty woman who knows what she wants. I like that about you.
Swinggcat: You just went up a notch in my book. Now you're at a one.
Girl: (laughing) You're F- ing really funny!
Swinggcat: You have good taste.
Girl: You have good taste. You're talkin' to me.
Swinggcat: Let's find out (I grab her and kiss her).
Swinggcat: Mm! I do have good taste.
This isn't just some cutesy conversation I had with a woman. There are a lot of deep, psychological mechanisms at work here and many layers of communication taking place. I could do a whole seminar just on this dialogue – I'm not kidding!
But this is only a short article. So, instead, I want you to focus on two aspect of this dialogue... SEXUAL TENSION & PUSH-PULL.
Read through the dialogue a couple times and notice where I emotionally push the girl away from me, triggering Active Sexual Tension inside her.
Pay attention to where I emotionally pull her into me, bringing closure and resolution to the tension I've created. And to learn everything you'll ever need to know about Push-Pull get yourself a copy of my audio course.
Perhaps you're thinking: "The dialogue between you and that woman sounds childish. Why would a woman want to thumb wrestle? I haven't thumb wrestled since the third grade. This girl must've been very young and immature. Or attracted to you from the get-go."
Here's the reality of it... I acted childish with her and that's why it worked. Women universally respond to what I call "child's play" flirting. To quote a friend of mine: "What was funny and amusing as a little kid is funny and amusing all over again."
In my experience, the more serious and adult a woman acts the better "child's play" flirting works. She has to spend her whole life as a serious person. It's a breath of fresh air when someone comes along that challenges her to let go, have fun, and act like a kid again.
Do women think Push-Pull is mean and manipulative?
If your intention is not to hurt women but to mess with them a bit and you keep it funny and playful, they'll find you charming. Most importantly, Push-Pull fills their bodies to brim with Sexual Tension.
Alas, my friend, because this is a short article we've barely scratched the surface of Sexual Tension, Prizing, Tension Loops, and Push-Pull.
But you're in luck because... I've put together a course where you'll receive a college education on every one of these things. (Heck, even the information page about this course will teaches useful skill for triggering attraction in women.)
Many of the techniques for triggering sexual tension you'll learn inside my course aren't available anywhere else in the world because I'm the guy who came up with them.
But that's only part of what you'll learn. Inside you'll get your hands on secrets for succeeding at every step of the attraction game: from approaching women to engaging them to attracting them to becoming sexually intimate with them.
I might not know you personally. But I do know...
What I teach gets results. It consistently drives women to see you as a Prize and triggers uncontrollable amounts of attraction inside them.
Just like many others have been doing, you too can catapult your current lifestyle with women by getting your hands on a copy of my course right now. You deserve it.
I'm so confident that my course is going to drastically increase your success with women I'm going to let you test-drive it for free of charge. Don't like it, send it back. You won't be charged and we'll still be friends.
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I think you owe it to yourself to start succeeding with the women you really want.
Your Loyal Dating Coach,
"Dr. of Attraction"
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