My 3 Favorite Places to Meet Women
Just out of curiosity... where do you go to meet women? Have you actually thought about what places might be BEST for meeting a lot of single girls?
Most guys focus on the wrong thing when they're first learning how to meet women. They try to pick them up in the most impossible places, like food courts, or shopping centers.
The problem with that is that they're there to either eat or shop. They are NOT there to meet people, and they're certainly not there to find a date. Their defenses are WAY up, which makes it really hard for you to make a good impression... let alone get their phone number.
Instead of going where the odds are against you, try meeting women in places that are very easy. Places where the women are already in the mood to talk to new people, and possibly find someone to date.
Where might those places be? Well there's a lot of them, but here's my top three.
1. Adult Learning Classes (usually at night)
Have you ever received a catalog from your local High School or Community College that features all sorts of different night classes for continuing education? I get them every season, and I always read through them carefully.
You see, single women try to keep themselves busy. And the best kind of women to be with are ones who are always learning and growing. When you're looking through the catalog, try to choose classes that are going to be filled with mostly women. Classes like:
- Arts & Crafts
- Relationships or Communication Skills
- Yoga or Pilates
- Dance Instruction
... and plenty of others.
Go ahead and check out your local catalog right now. Here's what you have to do. Call your local High School, and ask them where Adult Learning Classes are being held. Even if they aren't at that particular school, chances are they will know where you can find them.
2. Group Dance Lessons
I LOVE group dance lessons. Especially Swing Dancing, Salsa, or any kind of general Ballroom Dancing class!
Most guys have no interest in learning this kind of stuff, but most women DO. Almost every time I've attended a group dance lesson, the women all had to dance with the other women, because there was hardly any men in the class.
I'm serious, one time there was 18 women and only 2 men!
Do you see how the odds are GREATLY in your favor? They women prefer to dance with the men, but they are willing to dance with other women, because there's no other choice. But you better believe that when it's their turn to dance with YOU, they won't want to let you go.
I've met some very sexy & hip women at group dance lessons. Even if you don't meet anyone you like, you'll have an important skill that will put you ahead of 90% of other guys who can't dance at all.
Go ahead and look up some local dance schools, and ask them about lessons. Try to pick some place fairly large. They are usually large, because they get a lot of people. The more women, the more opportunity for you. Expect to spend around 100 bucks for an introductory lesson package, which probably includes five to ten group lessons. It's worth the money, trust me on this.
3. Internet Personals
I saved the best for last. The Internet Personals are the absolute BEST place to meet a lot of women for very little money. Here are my 3 favorites:
I want to warn you, though... Adult Friend Finder is mostly for people who just want to find a sex partner, not a relationship.
If you want to get some serious results from the personals, expect to spend around 100 bucks per month in membership costs. It's worth it to join a few sites, so you can spread yourself out a little more. If you think about it, it's really easy to spend way more than that buying drinks for women at bars. This is a much better investment, trust me.
SIDE NOTE: If you don't mind putting down a few hundred dollars up front, you save save a LOT of money by paying for an entire year. Most sites are 19.95 per month, but if you pay for the whole year, it comes out to 10 or 11 dollars per month.
Take your time, and actually read the ads from the other guys who use their service. Save the ones you like the best, and model your ad after theirs. And make sure you have a GOOD picture of yourself. I suggest having at least 2 or 3 different pictures.
Maybe one can be a face shot. The next can be some kind of action shot of you doing something fun. The third can be you posing with some strange animal or object (then you can tell the women you meet that you'll share the story of that picture when you meet them in person).
Give it a try. The Personals have come a long way, and it's perfectly cool and acceptable to use them. There's a TON of wonderful women waiting for you.
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