How to Sexualize a Conversation
Guys, I came to a major insight yesterday.
The big insight is in the use of one single word -- BABY.
I'll explain a little later.
For a long time I'd been trying to figure out how to sexualize a conversation with a woman you want right from the start. Because you know how you're supposed to reveal your interest right away, right?
Well I experimented this week with telling chicks right off the bat, right after meeting them, that I was going to try to get their number.
I did this using humor saying, "Well, you know, I really stopped by to ask you about your shoes (I asked them a question about their shoes), but now that I'm here, I'm going to have to get your number."
I thought this would be good because it would immediately reveal my interest, right?
But it didn't work so well. In fact, right when I said I wanted to get her number, she would withdraw.
There are a few reasons for this I think -- one, you're revealing your intentions; two, you're indicating that it's nothing about her personality that you like, as you've just been talking to her for a second.
Anyways, so I was thinking, how can you sexualize a conversation right away?
And I realized you can do so by using a term of address: BABY.
When I first thought of this, I thought, nah, that can't work, that's clichéd, it's considered sexist, a chick will get offended, and more.
But then I realized that all of my negative thoughts about using that word to refer to a girl came from cultural conditioning -- pretty much the feminist movement.
And so I decided to try it. I addressed a hot girl using the term -- and immediately she knew I was into her.
I said, "Hey baby, can you tell me what year your car is?"
And she immediately started playing with her hair, and more.
But I was still a little apprehensive about using the term. I guess I thought it might offend some girls. But then I realized that really hot girls probably are used to the term.
Plus using the word I think WILL SHOW THAT YOU HAVE COMPLETE CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF.
Because consider this:
A NICE GUY WILL NEVER ADDRESS A GIRL HE DOESN'T KNOW USING BABY.
Think about it.
You know what else; I realized I never addressed my ex-girlfriend, my first girlfriend, using the word baby.
I never did because maybe the word "baby" immediately establishes you as a dominant over the girl, and since she was my first girlfriend maybe I didn't get the confidence to go for that dominance...
Anyways, I would suggest that guys field test using this term.
And think about how very sexual it is. It's pretty easy to say to a hot girl. But imagine saying it to an older, dowdy woman!!!
No way, right?
Well that shows how very sexual the word is.