The "What Do You Think?" Opener

Why asking a woman's advice is the smoothest icebreaker there is.

by Lone Star

My dad and I were shopping for sunglasses the other day at Dillards, and though it's a bit awkward to witness your own father flex his Don Juan skills, I must admit I was quite impressed.

I signaled to him that a foxy brunette was coming up the aisle, and he went to work:

"Excuse me... what do you think?"

He put on one of the shades he was considering.

"Would you buy these if you were me?"

Of course she giggled, gave her opinion, and they engaged in small talk.

To me, this approach made perfect sense:

Guys supposedly can't shop for themselves, so a female opinion is actually useful.

Considering women love to shop, you'll always be able to have plenty of opportunities to use it.

There's always going to be an abundant supply of women in stores...

Just like there will always be fish in the sea.

SoSuave Note: Dad knows what he's doing. He kept it light, asked for her opinion, and gave her an easy way to engage. Zero pressure, zero rehearsed lines. That's the whole game right there.

Women respond to a man who's relaxed, playful, and genuinely curious about what they think. You don't need a perfect opener. You just need the confidence to start a simple conversation anywhere, anytime.

Department stores, coffee shops, wherever. Opportunity is everywhere.

Most guys just never look up from their phones long enough to see it.

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